The challenges of daily life are softened a lot by having kids, in the past month, we have not rented our house, had our VW Bug go into the shop 3 times, had our American Express hacked, and gotten sick. But that is all made okay by having our kids to take our minds off of these worries and give us perspective.
As we said in Elia’s blog, we went to California this month and spent some time with Bernard and Agnes’s family. Curie loves Eleanor and Miranda, which we suspect is because she sees them as role models. We also blogged about Kula in Torrance, but if you think of it from Curie’s perspective, she loves “sushi choo-coo” restaurants, loves surprise eggs, and loves cartoons. This restaurant had it all. Never mind Uncle Luiz gave her (and Elia) a Shopkins play set!
Curie is precocious and very funny, one morning Curie put her legs on Erin’s in bed, and when Erin playfully told her to take them off, Curie took one off in a high pitched voice, then took the other off in a low pitched voice. Erin asked her what was going on, and Curie told her that one leg was a girl and one leg was a boy.
The Hoaglands have had us over to their local pool. Curie’s first pool experience was in this pool when Albert dunked her. It must have made an impression because she now does not like to have her face wet; so when we went back to the pool, Curie was a little tentative (Elia was a fish to water). Curie is older now and has outgrown the infant life-jackets, so she wore floaties for the first time. It turns out she can reach the bottom in the 3 ft end and loved the water and was learning to kick as long as we were holding her. The second time in the pool she found out that Elia was jumping in the pool and that Albert had let Elia float and swim by herself. This made her braver and soon she was also jumping and swimming by herself in the pool. We are thinking of swimming lessons for both of them.
Curie’s enamel in her teeth never formed properly being born early so has had some trouble with her teeth. We have begun to change our lifestyle to become more healthy. We need to for Curie, but we will all benefit from the change. What has resulted are some night terrors and a fear of brushing for a while. We are also applying fluoride, which only comes in three flavors, grape (Curie hates grape because it is the flavor of children’s Advil and reminds her of medicine), mint (she doesn’t like strong mint because it is too spicy), and bubble gum (which they were out of, and for toothpaste, she likes berry over bubble gum), so we got grape, and she screams at how disgusting it is every time we do it.
Curie is going to start kindergarten soon and it is amazing how fast it has gone. We will enroll her into an after school martial arts program and have her join some clubs. The upcoming change is so disconcerting; Albert’s job mainly deals with change management and part of that is understanding that when you are effecting change you are less afraid, but this is not our choice, it is just what is happening. At day care, changes are afoot as well. Julie is leaving Bright Horizons, and many of Curie’s classmates have had their last day. We intend on making a Facebook group of Curie’s closest friends as an alumni group for Bright Horizons so that we can stay in touch. An then there was the Pre-K graduation: because of a conference, Albert missed it, which really depressed him. Before it happened, he let Curie know that he was sorry and was sad that he would miss it. Curie in her wisdom said, “that’s all right, Daddy, I will remember the song for you.”