Elia Sitting by Herself – Sort of.

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Elia sitting by herself for 5 seconds before falling over. Okay, technically that is Albert balancing a baby – so no milestone, Curie blog post coming soon, so thought we would post a picture of Elia. Sears photo has nothing on us.

Elia Turns Four Months!

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Elia Turns Four Months! This is the age where she exerts her own personality, is insistent on being held, and has become interactive and adorable.

As stated in the doctor post, Elia is 10 pounds one ounce, 15 inch circumference for her head, and 22.25 inches long. At four months she can roll front to back, can almost roll back to front, clasps her hands together and has a lot of gas. Oh, she is getting cuter every day with long eye lashes and slowly developing eyebrows. Both her eyelashes and eyebrows are lighter than Curie so don’t show up as well.

Her habits are very regular, eating every three hours (NICU schedule), needing a hundred pats to burp, milk coma, then sleeping, then waking crying, then burping or passing gas, getting changed and starting all over again. In the middle of that, there is a baby smiling and full of wonder, taking everything in.

Bernard already posted about their visit, and while Curie and Eleanor hung out, Elia hung out with Bernard and Agnes. We went to Marshfield, MA for some family time as mentioned, and spent the beginning of the month in New Orleans – Elia’s first plane ride. Elia and Brenda bonded in New Orleans, and while Elia didn’t get to try crawfish, we promise we will take her back when she can. She did great on the trip out to New Orleans, but after being constipated for a week decided not to be on the way back. Poor Erin.

Elia is always moving and very strong. She sits on your lap without neck support, only likes to face outward, and is always squirming. She is starting to really take things in, but the best part is how quick she is to laugh and smile.

We seem to be living day by day these days, going through the routine, but she will only be this age now and we have to remember to appreciate and enjoy. It is funny we say that almost every post whether it be for Curie or Elia, but you do get caught up in the happening of the moment and find yourself a little exasperated, a little tired, and a little whatever else that keeps you from relishing the moment. So be it the wonderful quite of a 5 AM feeding, or the warmth of the child sitting against your chest in the Baby Bjorn, it may be when she wakes before mommy or Curie, or if she is curled in the crook of your arm: relish and remember, there is only now, there is only now.

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Curie and Elia go to the Doctor and…

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Curie and Elia go to the doctor and…

Yesterday we took Curie and Elia to the doctor for their 30 month and 3 month appointments respectively. Note that Elia is actually closer to four months. Curie measures a two feet 10 inches, and 23 pounds 5 ounces. Elia measures at 22.25 inches long, and 10 pounds 1 ounce. Her head was 15 inches. For comparison, Curie was just under 10 pounds at 3 months, they are very similar.

Curie did not have any shots and had such a good time that she did not want to leave. Elia had two shots and an oral vaccination, so she was not as  happy. On milestones Curie met all except jumping, Elia met all of hers. And then…

…it was as if she heard us because that night, Curie learned to jump. She was so proud that she didn’t fuss when she landed on her bottom. Only parents or friends close to kids will understand this, but we were so proud.

We will have the normal blog entry in a few days, but we really wanted to note when Curie began to jump.

 

Noodle Soup Mecca?

Okay so you know that Erin and I have been to Tokyo for Thanksgiving to have 7 bowls of Ramen, and that some of the best Ramen we have had are in New York City and California. Pho is the same way, we have an Excel spreadsheet of Pho places across the country. You might also know we like urban hiking and food crawls. So we have had better versions of some of these noodle soups in many other places. However to have four (five) types of Asian noodle soups that are pretty good in stones throw from each other is remarkable. Food crawl anyone?

In NoVA (Northern Virginia for the un-initiated) where we live there are four restaurants in stones throw from each other that make pretty good noodle soup.

1. Beef Noodle Soup – A&J Restaurant, 4316 Markham St., Annandale, VA 22003

2. Pho – Pho Hot Restaurant, 7442 Little River Turnpike, Annandale, VA 22003 (Now note that we prefer Pho Factory Inc, 6237 Little River Turnpike, Alexandria, VA 22312, and  Pho Deluxe, 9675 Fairfax Blvd, Fairfax, VA 22031, also local – okay an update Pho 75 – we may need a separate post on Pho)

3. Ramen – Tanpopo Ramen House, 4316 Markham St, Annandale, VA 22003

4. Udon – Miso Cafe Japanese Restaurant, 7410 Little River Turnpike, Annandale, Virginia 22003

5. Jjampong – Lunch Time, 7630 Virginia 236, Annandale, VA 22003 (we actually haven’t been to this one, but it is Korean Noodle Soup a couple of blocks away)

6. Floating Market Noodle Soup – SakulThai, 408 S Van Dorn St, Alexandria, VA 22304 (this is no where near the place I am talking about, but it is Thai Noodle Soup and we eat here all the time – though we have not tried the noodle soup – sadly SakulThai is now closed)

I’ve also had Cambodian Noodle Soup once in Brooklyn, and Indonesians must have one too, but I have never tried one.

 

9/11

I wrote this for my nephew Jared for a project on 9/11 for him. The new tower is being finished this week and I suspect that his school had them interview people about 9/11 because of that.

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I was on the subway under Chambers street when the second airplane hit. Chambers street was the subway stop one the ACE line that ran under the world trade center. A woman boarded the train, she was covered in dust and said “a bomb just hit,” Startled, we were frightened,but the train moved on.

I got out of the subway like I did any day and went up to the 22nd floor of the building I worked in like I always do. On a TV was a picture of the buildings with billowing smoke. Back then, there was no instant messaging per se or text or really any smart phones, I was on email with a friend who did not have a TV and we wrote messages back and forth.

“I think there was a plane in DC.”

“Are we going to travel this week?”

“What is going on?”

“The south tower just fell.”

9:59 AM and the building crumbled on itself. I didn’t have to see the people jumping from buildings or the dust covered people running in the street, but the horror was there. And yet, there was a sense of calm in a crisis as well.

We evacuated the building, went to a lower building we had in the city. There was an auditorium and in a flash of inspiration, I started to play the movies we had there for the English as a second language learners, to calm people down. We didn’t know how long we were going to be there so we ran out to the stores and restaurants outside and bought up food and drink.

I was arranging cans on a table and in my OCD, I put all the cans facing forward. The CEO who didn’t talk to me much at the time said “I heard you were talented, but I didn’t know that was your talent.” In retrospect, he was lightly mocking me, but gallows humor was all we could afford at the time.

We were let go at the end of the day and in a hindsight that seems ludicrous today, I was allowed to ride the subway back under Chambers street and back to Brooklyn. The train did not stop there, but I saw a dust filled chaos in the station.

I didn’t walk the Brooklyn bridge with everyone else, I didn’t help people on the street, in the almost sterile environment of a subway car, I want back to Brooklyn and stayed there for the next two weeks without anything but the Simpsons DVD to keep me company. I didn’t go back to ground zero, and the areas around it, Chinatown, Soho, and the Wall Street Seaport area for almost a year after.

Note: When The World Trade Center towers fell they took down the cable television, the cell phone towers and much of what we take for granted in what we use to communicate. Only pagers worked that day and that technology is not used today.

I was supposed to travel that week, and I kept saying to my friend and colleague, I am going, no matter what I am going. He kept saying, there is no way I am going to go. I said, there is no safer time than now (after the planes hit), he said you will have to fire me. We all have very different reactions to things like this and each time is different. I don’t know what I would do now, but on that day, I just put one foot in front of the other and kept moving to keep out of people’s way.